Our mindset is a very important aspect of our persona as a whole. We have two choices: we either stay positive and build a creator mindset or we can embrace a victim mindset and fail ourselves. I believe that in order for one to even have a creator mindset, we must first have a strong foundation consisting of responsibility and maturity. If we are mature and responsible, we will naturally have a mindset of a creator. It is very silly to think that we are the only ones going through problems or the only ones that have faced challenging life situations. We must overcome anything that might of damaged us in the past, we must stop feeling sorry for ourselves, and instead take every bad experience as a learning lesson to make us stronger.
There is always going to be two type of people; the one that takes all the negativity and build something prosperous and the one that takes the negativity ans stays there, sink in the hole. I believe no one has an easy life, we all go through storms that we must overcome.
I was raised by a single mother of five, I am the oldest. My parents separated when I was 9 years old. It was a very challenging situation for my mother, but she never gave up. I could of sat there and though about how unlucky I was to not be raised by a traditional marriage, but instead I decided to see how bless I was to have such a strong women as a mother. I could not do anything but admire my mother for been so strong regardless of how broken she might of been inside. Up to this day I thank my mother for been such a super mom, and for teaching us through her own actions that a women can be strong and that everything is easier when walking by the hand of God.
We all have our sad moments and down days but it is very important to focus on our blessings and be thankful, to stay positive and strong. Life is not an easy journey, but we decided what mindset we take.
There is always going to be two type of people; the one that takes all the negativity and build something prosperous and the one that takes the negativity ans stays there, sink in the hole. I believe no one has an easy life, we all go through storms that we must overcome.
I was raised by a single mother of five, I am the oldest. My parents separated when I was 9 years old. It was a very challenging situation for my mother, but she never gave up. I could of sat there and though about how unlucky I was to not be raised by a traditional marriage, but instead I decided to see how bless I was to have such a strong women as a mother. I could not do anything but admire my mother for been so strong regardless of how broken she might of been inside. Up to this day I thank my mother for been such a super mom, and for teaching us through her own actions that a women can be strong and that everything is easier when walking by the hand of God.
We all have our sad moments and down days but it is very important to focus on our blessings and be thankful, to stay positive and strong. Life is not an easy journey, but we decided what mindset we take.
Hello Guadalupe,
ReplyDeleteI agree with what you have written in your blog post. The creator mind is always looking for ways to solve, to create. The victim mindset always leads to negativity and misunderstanding.
I also saw my mom as super mom. Although her and my father were still married when she passed on, she did ALL the work. My father did nothing to help her and quit literally put her through hell; as a child I wished that they would divorce. It was through her struggles that I found how important a creator mindset is, she always went above and beyond for her family. She taught me about the power of being positive and creating the life I wanted.
Sincerely,
Charlotte
Hi Guadalupe,
ReplyDeleteI am truly, sorry that you had to experience the separation of both parents at a young tender age and being nine years old could have caused an emotional trauma for you, because, at the age of nine you had already bonded with your father. If you were just a baby, or toddler it would not have such a huge impact due to being too young to process what was going on. You would not have experienced the stress and behavior problems, for such a loss at age younger than three. For instance, when my mom divorce my dad I was only three years old, so I had no memories of him being apart of my life at that age and their separation didn't affect me, until, I got much older, so by then I had many questions about my dad. These made my mom very angry and she hated the mentioning of his name In our household I was not allowed to mention his name in front of her for years. I had never even called my dad-dad I called him my his first name. Simply, because I knew he was of my dad, but I never got the opportunity to bond with him in a way that you perhaps bonded with your dad, but I thank God for our mom for being the strength in our lives; making us a better person for it.
Warm regards,
Cynthia